it sucks to know how dispirited your friend is feeling over a great loss and yet here you are, "disabled" as usual, starts displaying poppycock-ness that were uncalled for and instead of making the other party feel better, you made yourself look like a numskull.
It's okay if neither one made a single sense out of the whole chunk. It's much advisable to leave it hanging this way... spare me the further discomfiture.
